Recently, my wife became interested in one of the "SENSITIVITY” groups. This has made her a different person, with a completely new approach to life. One of her developing concepts has been "I have to be me." Can you imagine my surprise when, in expounding this point recently, she turned it around and said, “You have to be you too!”

When I was convinced she meant it, I excused myself, dressed in my favorite things, and returned for a long, very satisfying talk.

Before we were done she suggested I renew my contact with you. I know I can't just run to the next meeting in L.A., but if you would suggest the requisites, I would like to become active in your group.

Thanks for wading through all this chatter, Virginia. Keep up the wonderful work, and hold the door open for strays like me.

As ever,

Robin 5-L-8 FPE

Dear Virginia,

Your Wives' Book was a God-send to our family. Before it came to our household, life was very hard for Dorina. She was torn between wanting to be a person or staying away so things for her brother would be more bearable.

But since my wife read your book, she has become more tolerant toward Dorina, to a point now, to allow Dorina to visit. She also has been a help to Dorina helping with make-up and even buying her clothes. Of course Dorina is allowed to visit only when we two are alone. But believe me, this is so much better than waiting for the house to empty and then dress alone, no make-up and very lonely. Thanks for everything.

Love,

Dorina 25-D-2 FPE

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